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There's just something about that name...

As we approach this Easter Sunday and celebrate the most important day of the year, I am completely overwhelmed by the love of our Savior. It seems the more I study Christ and the longer I live, the more the crucifixion and resurrection impact me. Mere words fail miserably in attempting to describe what Jesus did. My simple mind just cannot fathom a Savior that would die the most physically painful death possible for the very worst in us. My diploma, degree, advanced degree, etc. still renders me helpless when trying to comprehend a Christ that would allow himself to be crucified when he could have blinked and ended the beatings instantaneously.

What kind of love could possibly prompt a God to leave Heaven and take on the body of a man for one singular purpose- To die a brutal and humiliating death? Authors and Song Writers have penned their best efforts for years to express their feelings and the significance of these events.

As children we sang:

"Red and Yellow, Black and White, we are precious in HIS sight, Jesus loves the little children of the World.

"He's got the whole world in HIS hands."

"Jesus loves me this I know, for the Bible tells me so."

As simple as these lyrics are, they get the point across to us as well as the more articulate songs we learn as teens and adults. Probably the most popular contemporary song writer and one of the greatest communicators teamed up on this one:

"Indescribable, uncontainable, You placed the stars in the sky and You know them by name You are amazing God" - Chris Tomlin and Louie Giglio

But as well worded as this is, I still find these lyrics painfully inadequate. In 1970, one of the greatest song writers of all time gave it his best shot.

"Jesus, Jesus, Jesus, there's just something about that name"- Bill Gaither

In my opinion, these lyrics may have hit the target best. When I was writing, I remember days that flowed and other days that I experienced serious writer's block. Sometimes the words just cannot describe what I want to say. I picture Bill Gaither overwhelmed by the love of his Savior and completely incapable of adequately describing Jesus. "Master, Savior Jesus, Like the fragrance after the rain." That is a terrific line, but Gaither had to feel he was still coming up short. "Kings and Kingdoms will all pass away" - Another great line, but when Gaither finally realized the words to describe Jesus would never match the matchless, he said it like we do so many times. When we can't quite put our finger on something, we say, "there's just something about ________." So when Gaither says, "there's just something about that name," I picture one of the most talented and anointed writers of all time admitting that there is no way a man could ever paint a picture of Christ's undying love for us.

Maybe Bill Gaither's simple, possibly even writer's blocked words say it best: "Jesus, Jesus, Jesus, THERE'S JUST SOMETHING ABOUT THAT NAME." WHAT A SAVIOR!!

Thanksgiving Top 10

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For the past 12 years I have posted my list. It began as an attempt to bring awareness to the "Power of the Pen on Paper." In the past, I would share this list at our Wednesday mid-week service at Free Chapel, but since moving to TN, I continue to see the benefits in simply noting these things and posting on my website and social media. Of course, some are very serious and others are meant to generate a courtesy laugh, but all of the these 10 have a certain relevance in my life. I CHALLENGE YOU TO WRITE YOUR LIST AND POST IT.  List making is powerful and focuses our attention on the important.

2016 Thanksgiving Top 10

  1. I woke up this morning. Thankful for the opportunity of another day.
  2. My Keurig (one cup) coffee maker. (game changer in the morning)
  3. Change of Seasons in the South. (Beautiful leaves, cool nip in weather and a sweater)
  4. MY JOB. Millions are out of work or hate their job. I enjoy all of the opportunities God has provided for me to provide for my family.
  5. Chimichangas, Chips and Salsa and a Coke. Enough said!
  6. A Healthy family- Grandparents, My Parents and all of us that have our health. (WE are Praying for those of you that are fighting health battles)
  7. America- Not perfect, but still the Envy of all other Nations of the world. We STAND for our National Anthem, Salute our Flag and Sing God Bless America.
  8. High School / College Athletics. (I love to watch kids compete for the love of the sport- not because they get paid)
  9. Psalm 23 and 27, Phil. 4:13 and John 3:16 (passages from the Greatest book ever written)
  10. A home with a fireplace, an incredible wife and 2 wonderful children. What a Country! What a Savior!
  11. A wonderful Church @nccog and Pastor Mark Williams who provide hope and wisdom each week for all of us attending. I hope you are actively involved in a great Church.

Yes, I posted 11 because I always needed the bonus question in school to push me over the top. Like you, I could list 100 things I am thankful for, but I hope these few cause you to Think, List and Post. It's a humbling exercise. Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours from the Richie Hughes Family. God bless you all.

Truth about Mark Richt

It was a Thursday in 2007. UGA was scheduled to play Oklahoma State on Saturday and it was the headline game of the first week of the College Football season. ESPN was already there and so was I. My Pastor and Friend Jentezen Franklin had been invited to do an (optional) devotion for the team after practice that day by some of the staff and chaplains. We went early and had all access to the practice. It was a thrill to see the talent and hear the game plan from a close up view. I was extremely impressed with Coach Richt and staff in how they prepared the young men for the game, the season and ultimately life. There was no excessive criticism, but plenty of correction and encouragement. The team appeared very ready to play and eager to get the year started. It was a HOT end of August day, the players were exhausted and hydrating as they left the field and entered the locker room area. Coach Richt stood at the door and spoke, high fived, fist bumped (some sort of touch) on each player as they entered. Coach was brief and positive in his practice summary and then he invited the team to a devotion going on later in the film room. The response to his invite was minimal. He followed up by inviting them again and informed the team that Jentezen Franklin was speaking describing him as a worldwide known preacher who could be anywhere in the world at that moment. "You are not at all required to attend this meeting, but If you care about your future, I strongly suggest you come hear what this guy has to say." A couple dozen expressed an interest this time. Coach Richt then gave a third invitation, "Guys, anyone who comes to this devotion will get your own Large pizza!" After about 30 minutes and an opportunity for the players to get a shower and a couple sports drinks, 87 members of the team came to that devotion!!!

Jentezen did a masterful job speaking to the young men about their future and their faith. At the end of this (optional) devotion 21 players made a profession of faith. Many rededicated their lives while others accepted Christ for the first time. We prayed with the players, heard their confessions and listened as they confided in us some things they were struggling with as 18-20 year old men. These players were shown not only the love of Christ that day, but the sincere concern for their future and eternal well being by their Head Coach Mark Richt.

Today, UGA fired Mark Richt. Words cannot express the frustration and disappointment I feel. It seems that the A.D. and powers that be have forgotten Bulldog football in the years prior to Coach Richt. .500 Seasons, no bowl games and losses to then Div. IAA schools were the norm under Jim Donnan and Ray Goff. Coach Richt changed all of that and averages just under 10 wins per season. He will have a chance for yet another 10 win season with the forthcoming bowl berth in a few weeks.

Coach Richt's success on the field speaks for itself and cannot be disputed, but there is not and in this day and time, will most likely never be a Coach who has the off the field impact that Mark Richt has had on his players. Today is a sad day for Coaching, College Football and countless young men who will not have the opportunity to play for Coach Richt. Coach Richt is a champion and he will be just fine. By the way the Dawgs won that game in 2007 over Oklahoma State 35-14 on the way to an 11 win season which included wins over Alabama and in the Sugar Bowl.


Thanksgiving TOP 10

Thankful Grateful Blessed Today we have the choice; To TAKE time to give Thanks or To TAKE for granted the many blessings God has given us. I challenge you to make your own list and put it on paper. I do this every year. In fact my last year's list is still posted on this blog site. This exercise will be most beneficial for you in raising your awareness of God's Goodness and may just allow you to have a little fun. I CHALLENGE all of you to share your list on social media. By doing this, your followers may do the same. What would the world look like if we were all focused on being Thankful, not stressed this Thanksgiving season.??

2015 list (some are serious, some are fun, but all are appreciated) NOT in any particular order of priority- strictly random.

I am thankful for:

1. My loving God who has no strings attached in loving me, forgiving me, blessing and providing for me....... and the list goes on. His Holy Spirit who comforts and encourages me daily.

2. My wife and children- everyday with them is amazing. We are far from perfect people, but in the end we love and appreciate each other.

3. Buffalo Chicken Tenders- Like the cell phone, sometimes I wonder how I ever lived before these things!! I'm praying for a fat free, calorie free version!

4. College Football- I love the SEC and the playoff system. I find myself watching games just to see how the outcome affects the rankings and playoff system. (Note to UGA and LSU- to consider firing your coaches is bizarre)

5. Music- I have found that my hashtag #MusicMakesMyMood is so true. When I need energy, my music is there, when I need encouragement my music is there, when I just want to Praise my God,  my music is there for me.

6. My charcoal grill- I don't have a Green egg or a big expensive Webster type, but my little grill on the patio provides solitude and some of the best private times I have. (by the way, I am a master HOT DOG Chef too! lol)

7. Godly Heritage- Raised in the faith, taught to believe in Miracles and doing my best to pass this along to my children.Thanks Mom, Dad, Grandparents, Great Grandparents........

8. Books and articles- My insatiable need for information and the desire to be a lifelong learner pushes me to read everything I can get my hands on. Downloads are great, but I still love paper! (Favorite book: Proverbs)

9. Slow drivers who actually drive in the right hand lane on the interstate- To the slow guys in the fast lane: Get OUT Of the way if you are going Slow and allow those of us who are MASTER drivers to pass you!

10. The fact that I can drive 10 minutes to be with my wonderful parents and family for Thanksgiving dinner! No long drives or passing through airports in this tumultuous time for our country. Thank you Lord.

Well, there are just a few of mine. (hundreds more could be listed)

So how about it? Go do your list today!! You will be THANKFUL you did.

God bless all of you.



Do Children NEED a Father?

Yesterday my two daughters got in a car and drove out of my driveway headed to HIGH School together. Did I mention HIGH school? Did you catch the part about them DRIVING themselves? As a Dad, this was one of the most bittersweet days I have ever experienced. You see most all of their school days to this point, I have done the driving. I have shared the morning drive to school. I have quizzed them in the car preparing for their tests that day. I have heard their conversations regarding their friends, their teachers, their upcoming ball games, etc. But that did not happen yesterday! They simply loaded up and left. (we had a brief hug and our daily prayer of blessing) Throughout the day, I experienced excitement (especially for my youngest- her first day of High School) and then depression. My daughters, those little girls who used to sit on the sofa with Daddy, who use to run to my arms when they got a boo- boo playing in the driveway, they.....they....they just didn't NEED me anymore! As they entered our home last evening, I hung on every word about their day. Tell me more.... Tell me more. I wanted to know every detail. Talk to me.....no don't go up to your room and get on the IPad. Stay here a little longer....talk to me....share your life with me. How did you like your teachers? What friends are in your classes? Who did you eat lunch with?

In this moment of almost desperation, I realized that is how OUR FATHER feels. The old southern Gospel song says it this way, "Now let us have a little talk with Jesus, Let us tell HIM all about our troubles, He will hear our fainted cry and He will answer by and by." Jesus desperately desires to hear the smallest details. He wants a relationship. He wants to be included and yes HE wants so badly to be NEEDED! We rush through our days, drive too fast, text instead of talking (to save time and carry on multiple conversations at the same time) and multi-task our way through an overcrowded day. Maybe, just maybe, we return thanks before our lunch meal. Where is our Father in our busyness? Do we still NEED HIM? (my answer: MORE than ever!)

As you go through your day, stop for a minute or two and "Have a little talk with Jesus." He's worth the time.


Thanksgiving Top 10

Each year, our family notes our top 10 things we are thankful for. Some are more serious than others, but all have a value in our lives. Here is the 2014 version: I am THANKFUL for:

1. Work- an opportunity to earn a living to support my family.

2. Scenes of fall- just passed peak seasons of leaves changing, but this year was especially beautiful or maybe I am just noticing things more as I age.

3. SEC football- there just isn't anything like it! SATURDAYS IN THE SOUTH! The SEC network and Paul Finebaum, enough said.

4. 6 generations of faith- at least 6, that's what I can trace. Over 100 years of ministry in my family. What a blessed heritage.

5. YOU Version Bible App- I still love my Bible (paper version). I love to turn and feel the thin pages, highlight and write notes in the book, but the  You version has given me prepared plans to read with commentaries from great leaders. The YOU version is priceless in my life now and our family has the tremendous blessing of choosing a reading plan that applies to each life at the appropriate age.

6. An Incredibly HOT wife- She loves the Lord, is a great mother and tolerates me. I call her my "Godly Hottie."

7. A community of peace- There are pro's and cons with any city, but I believe we have great community relations in Cleveland, TN

8. Eyes to see and Ears to hear- No earthly pleasure is greater to me than to WATCH my girls compete in sports and HEAR their laughter.

9. USA- Far from perfect, but still the envy of every other nation of the world. GOD BLESS AMERICA.

10. All those who like us, love us and pray for us. We have the blessing of a great family and wonderful friends.

Today, we will gather with loved ones and take part in a meal, catch up on the past year and maybe watch a parade or football game. I hope you will take a moment, reflect and maybe even write down your top 10. Thank you for the part each of you play in our lives. Whether we are directly connected or just an online visit or social media follower, God bless you.







My Tribute to David Landrith

It was my first spring basketball practice for High School ball. Still in school at the Jr. High, I was incredibly apprehensive, somewhat intimidated and totally unsure of what to expect. From the time I walked into the gym and saw the upper classmen, guys I had watched play on that hallowed court at Bradley Central, our best player David Landrith always made me feel special. His 6'6 lanky frame and closely cut hair never changed as long as I knew him. Even up to just a few months ago, 30 years later,  David always looked the same. More than that, David always acted the same. One could say, he was incredibly mature as a High School boy or that he just never really grew up as an adult. Both would be accurate, but only because David wanted it that way. I remember that first summer practice and the first time I heard David's famous saying, "You got to C'mon!" His last personal tweet before Jen took over his phone had that same familiar saying as he promoted his beloved Long Hollow Church with those same words, "C'mon." (see his tweet dated 10/25/14) Speaking of Twitter, David had 8,000+ followers, so imagine how I felt when I got a notification that my very first follower upon creating an account was @davidlandrith. Again, he made me (all of us) feel special. David specialized in making people feel special.

As a Sophomore, this Senior Captain of our team took me under his wing. We poured on the sweat and worked hard each day in the gym battling with our teammates and opponents, but it is the off the court memories that I am most reflective of. We shared a passion for basketball and people, but mostly our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Even as High School "kids" we had healthy discussions, sometimes debates about the Bible and what we had learned from our devotions, studies, church's theology and speakers that we had heard. In the end, as teenagers we came to the same conclusion we discussed the last time I saw him just a few months ago. "Let's forget all the debates, quit wasting time discussing any minor differences that don't really matter and go tell people about Jesus."

We have all experienced loss. I personally have lost a younger brother at 28 and sister at 32. Loss is incredibly difficult and the pain is sometimes almost insurmountable. I often wonder how one makes it without the "comforter." (Holy Spirit) Even as I pound these keys, my eyes blur with tears. Losing David is a heart shattering blow to all of us! We have literally prayed daily for David and for my childhood neighbor, Jennifer (Ramsey) Landrith and family since the day we heard the shocking news almost 2 years ago. The call came and the news was that David had this dreaded disease that we all fear. We have prayed for Long Hollow church and those with the daunting task of following such an anointed Leader.

My daughter wonders why I am so moved when speaking of David. After all, she knows I have experienced numerous losses. She has as well. But there was just something about David Landrith! I imagine David is walking down the streets of Gold and as he passes each mansion more people jump in and follow this infectious personality. While we are left to celebrate his life on Earth, David is overwhelmed with countless lives that are sharing their story with him of how he impacted their lives. Heaven is rejoicing and David is pain free and totally healed from all disease. He is talking with so many that he never even really knew while here on earth, but they sat in the chairs of his church, maybe they heard him preach or were somehow connected to his ministry. David had no idea of the impact he had while on earth. David Landrith's impact was massive.

As I write these last words, if I look up to the heavens....................................... and listen really close...................................... I can almost hear David........................... "Rich, this is the place we used to talk about and it's ALL that! This place will put you where you oughta be!................................ YOU GOT TO C'MON!"

I'll be there soon my friend. There will NEVER be another David Landrith.

Confession: I don't know how to parent...

Well, she's 15 today and I'm a basket case! My daughter who just yesterday could lay down and nap on top of my chest is now a beautiful young lady. She is wonderful and talented. She loves Jesus and I couldn't ask for more. It seems last week that I could feel her tiny little heart beating against my chest and I could hold her in one hand. 15!!!! Now what? If you are a parent, maybe you have experienced this same helpless feeling of "how do I do this?" It's been said that, "there is no manual for parenting" and yes I am guilty of having all the answers BEFORE I had my own children. The truth is, all we can do is simply TRY our BEST and TRUST HIM the MOST. I don't have any answers, but here are 3 parenting suggestions:

1. PRAY for Wisdom and Guidance. TRUST God's inspiration for the answers to the questions. ASK the MASTER.

2. PRAY for Patience. DO NOT act in haste. A deliberate strategy may produce the desired outcome with your children.

3. PRAY for Passion. Ask God to give your children an area that they are passionate about. That passion may occupy the mind, therefore eliminating the time to get into things they shouldn't.

While these 3 suggestions are simple, parenting is NOT! I pray your children are rooted in the love of Christ Jesus and that they (Mine included) somehow understand how imperfect we are as parents. (Imperfect yes, but trying our very best to show them the way) I ask for you to pray for Stephanie and myself and we will do the same for you.

Are you Trustworthy?...

Trust is one of the most powerful words in our language. The human race operates under monumental levels of trust without even realizing it. Examples: We drive at high rates of speed passing cars that are merely a few feet away from us. We sleep at night trusting that our locks will keep out the bad guys and on and on we trust. It is this need to trust that causes us to hurt so deeply when trust is broken. I continually watch as people break trust doing serious damage to relationships. Many times trust is never regained and the relationship is totally lost. Other times, it takes many years for the healing to occur. The Bible is clear regarding forgiveness. However, I have witnessed the forgiveness piece in action, without a relationship ever recovering.

Let's remember how valuable Trust and being Trustworthy really is. Remember it is earned, not easily given. More than that, let's strive to continually be trustworthy. Prov. 17:17 "A friend loves at all times and a brother is born for adversity." Are you trustworthy?

My Special Sister

It was 15 years ago today. Keri Marcel Hughes' life was celebrated at our church. We had a time of reflection and a time of worship as we imagined her seeing her beloved savior face to face. Oh, how she loved Jesus. No one loved Church more than Keri. If the doors were open and she was able, she was in Church. (bible in hand) From the time she was born, she had physical challenges and the medications used to attempt to control the epilepsy took portions of her mind. BUT nothing could ever take her HEART. She was the greatest lover of people I have ever witnessed. Her smile was infectious and just watching her function each day in spite of her limitations was amazing. Seldom was she able to attend my games, but I remember those special times she would greet me at the door after a win. She had listened on the radio and knew the outcome. Her approval of my play was on the same level as I sought from my coaches, teammates or parents. There's something special about special children. Words cannot explain it, but those with special ones understand.

15 years later, I tearfully write these words just to pay tribute to the greatest winner I have ever known. Keri's victories were greater than anything I could ever accomplish. Today, her handwriting is perfect, her voice is beautiful and on key as she sings her worship songs and her physical body is made perfect. She is probably working a mean crossword puzzle or playing some angel in checkers. (the things she loved) Whatever she is doing, she is competing to her best ability and has a huge smile on her face. She fits right in among all the other angels.

How to Talk To Yourself...

We all do it. Some do it more than others, but we all talk to ourselves. Second guessing, name calling and the occasional self encouragement are just a few of the ways we have this ongoing conversation with........ well...... ourselves. One of my recent conversations went like this....."Richie, you Idiot." Now, I don't really believe I am an Idiot, but when you hit your tee ball in the woods at the golf course, it's either "Idiot" or something much worse. Being that I refrain from profanity, "Idiot" seemed appropriate. I read a powerful sentence today that "spoke" to me. (see talking to myself again) This sentence simply said, "When you talk to yourself, say nice things." As you go through today, remember to encourage yourself. BUILD up rather than BEAT up and I am referring to yourself. You are God's Masterpiece and HE sees you as just that. How do you see yourself? Half the battle may be won by saying NICE things to yourself.

Competing with Class

Hi, my name is Richie and I'm an "OVERLY COMPETITIVE AHOLIC." There, I said it and admit it. Quite frankly, I'm not ashamed. After all, doesn't the Bible say to "run the race to win the prize?" Last Friday night, I witnessed an incredible event in our community. The BRADLEY/ CLEVELAND High School football game is one of the year's best events and has been for many, many decades. This year was no exception as the game's outcome was holding in the balance until the final minute as the Blue Raiders blocked a PAT after the Bears scored on a long TD pass. The final score: 21-20. (can't get any closer) Multiplied thousands attended and were truly entertained by young men on both sides giving all they had and playing their hearts out for their respective fans and schools.  To see this type of fierce rivalry take place with little or no incidents is a true testimony to the CLASS of our COMMUNITY. Please understand, in this community you must choose one or the other. (we actually have 3 great schools now, recently adding Walker Valley HS in the past 10 years) There is no love lost. For a time period during my High School career, (19--  - 19-- none of your business) Bradley and Cleveland stopped the annual football game due to excessive, uncontrollable violence! History tells us that many championships are determined by the winner of this game. True rivalries can only continue to be rivalries if both teams have a chance to win each year. Any type of one sided, long term dominance kills a rivalry. The Bradley/ Cleveland game is most always a pretty even match up and the "county trophy" goes back and forth, never staying at one school for any great length of time.

So at least until basketball season, where we will all do it again- probably 3-4 times counting the district, region and even state playoffs, CHS has bragging rights. Me? I attended Bradley and love the Bears. While my team lost this time, my reflections are on how the players reacted with the utmost of class the entire night. (no taunting each other or the crowd), how most of the fans supported their team with spirit, but weren't overly obnoxious as some can be and how 7-8000 of us filed out of the same gate to our cars in the same parking lots without major incident. Kudos to our school superintendents, principals and coaches. You all COMPETED WITH CLASS. Dadgum, that blocked kick!

I'm under Twitter Attack

Those that follow me on twitter know that I normally attempt to post something encouraging. Most often my posts involve some sort of reference to my passion and love for Christ. Sunday I happened to be outside for an hour or so and it was an amazingly beautiful day thus I tweeted: "Get outside and tell me how anyone could believe in evolution. Only an Omnipotent God could create a day like this. #thankful" My intentions were to say thanks to an awesome God for blessing us with a near perfect day. Wow! I started a firestorm of attacks. I'm not a twitter expert and have never searched for topics or key words, but evidently a lot of people do. I began to receive replies from several people with the hashtag #atheism. I will not repeat, but as you can imagine, they were not exactly a standing ovation of my tweet. While I don't waste my time replying to negativity, it wasn't even my intention to criticize evolutionists. So I write these next words to both groups of people - Christians and Non- Christians.

What you believe or don't believe is certainly your business. My book "Start Here, Go Anywhere" is all about "Choices." What I know to be true about my God is not debatable. It is not a Theory or Scientific analysis. FACT: I KNOW whom I have believed and am persuaded that HE IS ABLE. I CAN do all things through Christ who strengthens me. ALL things work together for the good of them that love the Lord.  And finally, In the beginning GOD CREATED the Heavens and The Earth. - Source: The Bible

I refuse to back down or believe that my beautiful wife and daughters EVOLVED from a Monkey. No monkeys have EVER looked like they do. (I have been accused of evolving or possibly even still being a form of a Donkey). Anyway, God bless all of you.

Do The RIGHT thing...

The Story Imagine yourself as a young leader who sees a better way to operate in your organization. When you ask the big question “Why” the answer is “that’s how we have always done it.” Most of you just said, “That’s ME!!” You have looked at a process or system and you are confident you have a better way of doing it. If you are like me, you research it, study others and their operational process and make your Pros and Cons list. Then maybe, just maybe…. you muster up the “guts” to tell your leader “we can do this more efficiently and here is how.”

Upon becoming CEO and Executive Pastor of a large Mega Church with a successful Television Ministry, I was faced with this challenge: The TV ministry was doing well (not broken) but I saw how we could make it better immediately.  Our delivery time on resources to viewers was like all other TV offers: “Please allow 4-6 weeks for delivery.” We processed all orders by hand, in house with our church members who were paid on salary and full benefits. The process worked fine, it was just slow. After some research, I discovered that we could outsource the fulfillment of orders and have customer delivery in 4-5 days! This efficiency would encourage our partners to order more and further their support for our ministry. As I mentioned, I researched it, called everyone I could talk to about the way they did fulfillment and made my list. The pros and cons list looked like this:


*Customers receive products in 4-5 days not 4-6 weeks

*Outsourcing would save us $163,000 the first year in salaries, benefits, etc.

*Timely processing would increase further support from the partners generating a larger budget to     purchase even more airtime for the ministry



*5 wonderful people lose their jobs

*Risk breaking a system that was working just fine--- in my first few months on the job?

*Trusting an outside agency in another state instead of walking down the hall to check on the operation taking place live in house (easily monitored)


The other challenge that haunted me was that one of the 5 employees that would be terminated was a dear friend of our family and her Father was on the Board of Directors for the ministry. Yes, I am crazy!!! I was considering firing one of the Board member’s daughters!


Upon realizing that this was what I believed to be the RIGHT THING to do, some wise council advised me that I may be firing myself. “You don’t break things that aren’t broken and you NEVER fire a Board member’s daughter” they told me. The only problem was I knew what was RIGHT and every tithe paying member trusted us with their finances. How could we explain slower, less efficient customer service at a price of over $163,000 more annually?


We pulled the trigger and went for it. We stepped out on faith and presented this to our Board of Directors. With fear and trembling, I presented all of the details, due diligence and support information. Upon finishing, I awaited the hard questions and privately wondered if I had just committed professional suicide. While I am presenting some of my anxieties with this issue, I had earnestly sought the Lord and felt confident in my spirit that HE had my back. After a very short Q and A session, the Board voted unanimously to proceed with the plan. Yes, unanimously! That means that a Father had to vote for his daughter to be unemployed.


The Takeaway

We learned a huge leadership lesson that day! Andy Stanley says, “Choose the HARD right over the EASY wrong.” When facing challenging issues, most often we know what the right thing to do is. Often times, we just don’t have the courage to do it. We operate in fear of losing our own status, job or being criticized for taking a risk. This example goes to show that doing the RIGHT THING will garner more support than expected from sources that are sometimes surprises.


The Challenge

What are you afraid to do that you know is the RIGHT THING to do? Who are you afraid to cross? What relationship do you fear you will lose by taking action? Ultimately, the question is who are you trying to please???? DO THE RIGHT THING and let God take care of the details.


WE are NOT Egypt...

As we celebrate Independence Day, this year I am especially thankful. Yes, I am aware of the unrest in Egypt, the Snowden leaks case, the political turmoil surrounding our nation's healthcare, the Martin/Zimmerman case and other challenges the world and our country face today. I actually check out 3 different news channels each day  just so I can see both sides of each issue. Here is what I have found: 1. We are a nation of strong OPINIONS, but are rarely totally divided or combative.

2. Our economy is not at a peak, but nothing like Egypt (Tourism down 40%, food and gas costs up greatly, energy costs skyrocketing)

3. Our leaders are not receiving glamorous reviews, but America does not have over 20% of the entire population in the streets protesting and attempting to overthrow the Government.

4. Our current President spent yesterday with our former President from a different political party with very different views. The 2 leaders joined together for the good of a cause for Africa. Egypt's President is in hiding.

On the 4th, my family will grill burgers and dogs, laugh and tell jokes, reminisce about the past and look optimistically at the future. We will sweat and swim (maybe not if this Hurricane of a rain storm doesn't pass) shoot hoops, play volleyball and eat ice cream. We will watch a quality fireworks show and remember what these words represent:

And the rockets' red glare, the bombs bursting in air, Gave proof through the night that our flag was still there; O say does that star-spangled banner yet wave, O'er the land of the free and the home of the brave?



America- 2013 version


Memorial Day Weekend- One of my favorite times of the year. We gather with family, camp out, cook out and get outdoors. The weather forecast in my city is great. (82 degrees and sunny) But, we MUST remember who we are memorializing. With American flags decorating my home and business, I cannot seem to get enough of the "wounded warriors" ads on Fox News. The touching stories of those who, unlike myself, fought to defend this FREEDOM my family enjoys daily. We cannot take it for granted!

In a time where America is moving further away from the Gospel of Jesus Christ, it is incumbent on us to defend the faith more than ever. In doing this, we MUST do so in a way that reflects the LOVE of Jesus, rather than the HATE of other groups who kill in the name of their God. Jesus loves us all and is "no respecter of person." The Bible does not say Jesus only loves those who love Him, those who follow Him. Jesus loves all people......ALL Americans.

In an America where we seem to be declining in every moral category, let's be reminded of the wonderful freedoms we still possess. Celebrate the opportunity to worship freely in  the Church of our choice. Rather than complaining about the battles we as Christians seem to be losing on moral issues, let's continue to equip our families and churches with the way of the WORD. The "wounded warriors" remind us this weekend of the price that was paid. Let's focus on their sacrifices and enjoy the wonderful benefits that so many have provided us in the 2013 version of the USA, USA, USA!!! God bless America!! USA, USA, USA.........

How can I trust in God?

Over the past week, once again I have been reminded how hard trusting can be for us when life and loss just don't make sense. How can a God fearing, church going  husband and wife drop off an infant and go to work (both teaching our children) and never see their 4 month old take another breath? How can a young lady from a great family die on the table while receiving what was thought to be a life giving kidney transplant? How can  a Grandfather fall asleep at the wheel and never make it to his earthly destination? Yes, this is the week we are having in real life and most of you can say, "I've been there." The answer? We will never know. My readers know by now that I get pretty real with God, even have had my times when I admittedly was mad at the Almighty and Sovereign giver of Grace. Most of you know that I lost a younger brother and sister over a short 4 year span. AIDS... REALLY GOD? We all have MAJOR questions, don't we! While I may appear to be writing in question or frustration today, I assure you that at this stage of life I am not. I only pose these questions and exhibit this frustration because I know where so many of you are today...... right now.

The truth is... you will never know the answers. As I have said before, it is not our job to UNDERSTAND, but instead it is our job to TRUST. Understanding will never come, but "Trust in the Lord with all thine heart and lean not on your own UNDERSTANDING."- Prov. 3:5 When we view life through Job's lenses, don't forget that Job received double from everything he lost. My prayer for all of you, regardless of your situation is that the Sovereign ONE God would bless you with double. Until that day, may he give you Peace, Strength and Encouragement.

**Excerpts taken from my book: Start Here, Go Anywhere (Chapter 12)

Then I hit my 40's

I was feeling pretty good about myself - Then I hit my 40's. I didn't have too many wrinkles or sun spots- Then I hit my 40's. I could run and play basketball at a high level vs. much younger, talented players- Then I hit my 40's. I could play ball, workout or go for long runs and NEVER get sore- Then I hit my 40's. I never really wanted a convertible- Then I hit my 40's. I never really watched what I ate because it didn't matter- Then I hit my 40's. My kids thought I was cool, smart and wanted to be around me all the time- Then I hit my 40's. My 9 hole golf scores were most always in the 30's- Then I hit my 40's.

I was driven by career advancement and earnings- Then I hit my 40's. I would not have taken less money, turned down engagements, etc. to be home with my family- Then I hit my 40's. I would never prefer to pass up a round of golf or competitive game of basketball to be with family- Then I hit my 40's. I rarely thought about what legacy I would leave for my wife and kids- Then I hit my 40's.

Ok, so I am mid 40's but this life change has evolved over the past few years. I am thankful that so many changes have been for the good of my family and myse

2012's biggest lesson

In looking back over the past year, I have learned a most critical lesson. This will seem simple to most, but look deep into this thought:


Ok, why is this hard for me? My background in Athletics has always been about WINNING. Do What it takes to Win!! While that drive has brought me tremendous success as an athlete and a coach, I am finding more and more in ministry, business and especially with my children that the RIGHT THING is not always the easy thing. To clarify, in basketball if you scored on me, I felt compelled to score immediately on you- I had to get you back and don't think for a minute you would get to the basket without a hard foul from me.

In sports, I loved to press, blitz or do whatever I could to CRUSH the spirit of my opponent. So how do we handle situations where people do WRONG in business or to my wife or children. (Has anyone ever said, "Don't mess with my kids!") You see it is extremely difficult to not desire to GET THEM BACK when we are done WRONG. The past few years have brought incredible examples of our family attempting to DO WHAT IS RIGHT rather thatn WHAT WE WANTED TO DO or even WHAT WE FELT OTHERS DESERVED. My frustrations at people who do business dishonestly, take advantage of us or are simply MEAN SPIRITED or Ill Intentioned to my children weigh heavy on me especially at night. (anybody ever been there???) While I am a long way from an A student in this subject, we as a family are trying very hard and getting better.

Reflecting back on those CHOICES to DO WHAT IS RIGHT, we have seen God do the most amazing things for us. Agree or Disagree, but I believe God is a rewarder of faithfulness and kindness. So much of the success we as a family are experiencing now came as a result of NOT GETTING SOMEONE BACK. I believe the RIGHT THING prevails and remember FAVOR ISN'T FAIR! I'll take the favor and rewards of the Creator over the approval of those who Create messes here on Earth.

This year make a note to CHOOSE kindness over REVENGE and watch my God do the AMAZING in your life!

Life's Hurdles...

I have had 2 conversations early this morning with people who are facing hurdles in their lives. Upon the realization that I too face hurdles constantly, I take great consolation in this:

1. I am not unique in facing these hurdles. We all do!

2. Hurdles are not going away! As soon as we clear one, we race toward the next one.

3. Only when we meet Jesus face to face will the last hurdle be cleared.

It is my belief that we all face constant challenges in order to stay in constant communion with God. If there were no hurdles or challenges, we as imperfect human beings would do it all ourselves thus eliminating the need for a Savior. As we enjoy this day, the journey and yes even the hurdles, let's be confident in the ONE who began a good work in us. Our faith in the Father will not return void! Lace up the shoes a little tighter and let's go!